SECRET #3: DYNAMIC FINESSE:
DYNAMIC FINESSE: This is largely 'acquired' wisdom. We drummers must know instinctively, 'When NOT to play'. There will be many places in the music where little or no drums are required. This happens more frequently in Hymns, Country Ballads and softer music styles.
Sometimes it takes real guts to stop playing and layout completely. As you do this, at just the right moments in the music, something cool will happen! New (low end) dynamics will be added to the overall sound of the group/band. You will be missed and appreciated at the same time. Your contribution to the overall sound will then become even more obvious as you reenter the music with thunderous rhythmic confidence.
Try this with your own band! If it is done correctly, you will begin to get the respect you deserve. Try doing this at every appropriate opportunity! I think you will notice a few more appreciative nods coming from the other band members.
NOTE: If you notice that the band tends to fall apart when you drop out, try keeping a very soft backbeat with the hi-hat . . . only a very soft 'chick' sound and that is all. Just enough to help the group stay together but not enough to be heard by the audience. Then, when you come back in . . . do it with gusto!
This sort of DYNAMIC FINESSE tends to make a point. That point is this: 'Most of the tempo problems occur when you AREN'T playing'! The other players will then be forced to concentrate on maintaining their own 'near perfect' tempo. It is good for the group as a whole and it will make your job easier!
SECRET #4: GO EASY ON YOURSELF!
The odds are very much in your favor that you are being TOO HARD ON YOURSELF! Taking the blame for the inadequacies of the other band members is a common occurrence with good drummers.
We automatically shoulder the blame when the other guy gets out of time! But, this is self defeating! I recommend against it! Make each player responsible for playing in time!
That is the best we can do as drummers . . . the rest is up to them! If they insist on playing out of time, simply pull back and let them fall on their face a time or two. Before long they will get the message and become a little more tempo conscious.
SECRET #5: LISTEN TO THE BEST!
As a final thought towards playing eloquent and simplistic. Listen and imitate those who do it best. I am referring to the great session drummers right there on your recordings. Listen closely to the tricks and techniques they are using on the simple songs. As you acquire and adapt those licks, the boring songs will take on a whole new feeling. They will become fun to play!