What you can bring to the band to make the music better could be anything. Perhaps you have a good singing voice and want to sing harmonies. Maybe you have a head for interesting musical ideas and would like to bring something to the band to make the music more textural or complex. Maybe the band needs someone who is good at booking gigs or making posters. Perhaps you could make a difference in a musical passage by adding a new percussion instrument to your set up, like a vibra slap or a wood block to apply in just the right place.
So, the choice is yours. You can be a drummer who justs sits in the back of the band, or you can be a drummer who makes a difference in the musical process and the way in which the band works.
I have found that bands who have drummers that participate in the creativity, the music development, the writing and even the business part of the band tend to be better bands than the bands where the drummer just sits in the back keeping time.
Of course, some bands are run by control freaks who don't want the drummer to participate. If you are in a band like that, you might be wise to keep time in the back, especially if it is a good paying gig. But, if you are looking for a satisfying situation artistically, personally and professionally, get involved. It is hard work, but you'll be glad you did.
Conversation is Key
The hardest part, at first, is learning how to communicate with other band members. If you keep working at it, and remember to listen to people, setting a good example, in time they will listen to you. Communication is a two way street.
Music making is a democratic process that can be a lot of fun. Remember though that in a democratic process of any form, there is disapointment, frustration and let down. Learn to let those things roll off your shoulders and keep on participating in the band in a real, meaningful way. You'll be glad you did. I know I am, and I continue to learn from my band mates and they learn from me I hope.
Remember to create space in the music, but make sure you are adding something and playing with intention in mind. You and your band mates will be smiling and your fans will be tapping their toes and spreading the news about your awesome band.
